lunes, 5 de marzo de 2012

Tips on How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back Now

If you and your boyfriend have broken up (let's say because he's found a new girl), it's only human nature that you'd want him back. Human beings are competitive, and while you might not mind losing your guy to a new job in a new city, the thought of him being with a new girl can be a bit annoying, to put it mildly.

So, how do you get your ex boyfriend back?

Well, before you start taking any steps, the first thing you've got to ask yourself is, do you even want him back? You've got to separate your competitive drive (that doesn't want to see you lose out on anything you want) from your relationship drive.

When it comes to relationships, you want what's best for you and ultimately, what's best for him. So if your boyfriend broke up with you because he found a new girl, the question you should be asking is not "How do I get my ex boyfriend back?" but rather, "Can I trust ex-boyfriend to stay true to me from now on and not dump me the next time a girl catches his eye?" Getting left for another girl is not a matter of attractiveness (remember, if Angelina Jolie is a 10 then so was Jennifer Aniston, and that didn't do much for her with Brad Pitt, did it?). The point is, evaluate if you should you change who you are to get your ex-boyfriend back, or should you just learn from your mistakes, remain good friends with the guy, and find a new boyfriend. It's all up to you in the end.

A young woman, in her teens or even early twenties, with her first relationship, might be thinking, "I'll never find another boyfriend. I've got to get him back!" while a more mature woman will be thinking, "There's plenty of great guys out there. I can find one."

If you need help on how to get your ex boyfriend back, check out a few websites and books that give relationship advice - perhaps ask a few friends you trust and then, take it from there.

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